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And some straight guys (myself included) love how strong, "ferocious and domineering and in control" she is. And I love the song Vogue, even though I don't understand the feeling it is about, I love its melody and rhythm. It is amazing that she could write a song capturing such a feeling, in spite of not being a gay man.
Her most sexual era strongly resonates with my sexuality. But I can imagine that for a pig part of straight men it made her less "fuckable".
Regarding if there is sexism or misogyny in this: I guess there is, even though it is mostly about sexual preference. But there is also this sad fact that many straight men who sexually prefer strong and domineering women are also sexist and misogynist...