I'm glad to see quite a few pieces written from this perspective. I remember going to see Grace Jones live. She was 60 at the time, wore a thong, a basque and was hola-hooping wearing a cat's mask - totally bonkers, of course, but also completely at ease with herself and comfortable in her own skin. Later that same year I saw Tina Tuner, few months shy of 70. Tina was rocking super short skirts, high heels, being sexually suggestive and seemed to be having a ball. I myself turned 30 that year and I was totally inspired by both of them and felt empowered in a way - who cares what people say? Where is the rule book that says you should or shouldn't do/wear/say certain things at this or that age? Who cares if Renée Zellweger, Ume Thurman - or whichever female celebrity is getting the wrong end of the stick these days ( (and let's face it, it's women who are constantly being judged and criticised for their appearance) - has had work done, bought a new face or looks differently to what we think they should look. Who cares? Why is this news? How does that impact on anyone's daily life? I think it's safe to assume Madonna will be in her 80s, still flashing her ass and, well, still being Madonna, and I for one will be front row applauding her. It's one thing not to like someone's work, be it acting, singing, whatever (nobody's forcing you to see Thurman's new movie or spend money on a Tina Tuner ticket) but to try and put someone in a narrow box of one's own insecurities, preconceptions and social conditioning is simply ignorant. The last thing we need is having more people telling women what to wear and how to act. Fuck that - where's my hoola-hoop? Now I'm gonna blast "Express Yourself" and dance around like a total fanny in my kitchen just cause I feel like it, cause I'm a strong independent woman myself and cause don't care if that's an undignified thing to do. Come on girls!